“When reminding my partner that he needs to take responsibility for his emotions, and that I can’t be blamed for his anger, he responded that it should be the same for me and that he shouldn’t be held responsible for my feeling abused, and that I should be responsible for those feelings.”
This was a question that came in through my Instagram that really stumped me. It felt obvious – of course you are not responsible for feeling abused. I unpack this question on this episode.