The way to win with a Narcissist

This one will be short and not very sweet. The game with a Narcissist is rigged. We have NO Emotional LEVERAGE over narcissists. They do not care. They have leverage over the situation, because we care and have empathy. There is NOTHING you can do to gain emotional...

I Hate the Rhetoric on Self Love

Most people don’t know how to build up their own self worth. I’ve had my own battles with self love, self worth, self-esteem and self care. I certainly didn’t resent all the words associated with it. When I was healing, all I knew is that I wanted to...

How Does Emotional Abuse Feel?

When emotional abuse is taking place, it may be obvious to those on the outside, or it may be very difficult to detect because everything seems “normal”. It may even have been going on for a while, but the attitudes and indications of those involved have...

Conversations with a Narcissist are Exhausting

Conversations with a narcissist are exhausting, dizzying, nerve-racking, and make you feel like you’re going insane. Often people will question their own reality and their sanity. The circular conversations leave you feeling worse off than if you had never had them in...

How I Work With Clients in Emotional Abuse

I wanted to explain what working with me looks like – especially when you are dealing with Emotional or Narcissistic Abuse. For a long time I focused my business on only Millennial Life Crisis, so I would help women who reached a crossroads in their life. They...