I hate the rhetoric on Self Love

I hate the rhetoric on self love. I hate the narrative of you have to love yourself before you can have anything or do anything or heal anything… Children, like me, who grew up in a home where it was normal for a parent to tell you what you think or what you...

Hiring a Divorce Coach

When is the best time to hire an abuse coach? Yesterday! But today is good too. If you have experienced and are continuing to experience post-separation abuse (no matter how subtle it might be) then you need someone in your corner who knows what you’re going through...

Love Bombing

Love bombing is a controlling and manipulative tactic most often used by narcissists and abusive people.  In this episode, I unpack Love Bombing: what it is, how it feels, how to know if you’re being love bombed, and how to let go of the false-potential it...

Understanding Cognitive Dissonance

The Role of Cognitive Dissonance in a Narcissistic Relationship When you’re in an abusive relationship, there are a lot of feelings, emotions, and actions that can be confusing at times. You can experience cognitive dissonance through the manipulation tactics...

Clarity Calls Closed Through April

✨️Important Update: Clarity Calls (free intro call) are closed through April.✨️ March is already jam-packed and I have a trip mid-April with my daughter so I need to hold the time for my consistent clients. If you want to work with me and can’t wait until May...